Hero or Has Been?

Are we the hero of our own dreams?

How do we balance confidence and self worth? Are they the same thing? When does confidence spill over into cockiness? 'Cockiness' can be explained as being "overly confident, arrogant, or full of yourself in an annoying way. It is an aggressive or conceited form of self-assurance where a person acts like they are better than others." Ring any bells? It's not a great way to make friends and influence people. And to be fair, we are trying to do both those things when it comes to sharing the Gospel with others.

'Influencers' have become the best thing out since sliced bread. Once again I found this online explanation: "An influencer is someone who builds a dedicated social media following and uses their authority, knowledge, or personal connection with an audience to shape opinions, guide behaviours, or encourage people to buy products." Apparently it's a lucrative business - people are making big money by persuading others, (obviously those who can't shop or think for themselves), to buy, on the influencer's recommendation, thus earning them a percentage of the profit. It feels a step too far for me. Sure, all companies advertise, but this feels more aggressive. Do we need it? 

I personally think being the hero of our own dreams can become a detrimental attribute. "Pride comes before a fall." Prov 16:18. A lot of us could own up to this situation. Reading through the scriptures we find stubbed toes and bloody noses abound, caused by and through the sin of pride. Even the disciples were not immuned. On the other hand, so many followers of Christ influenced others by their walk, talk and knowledge of the scriptures. The New Testament is wholly written by those who were influenced by and through the teaching of Jesus. He was, and is the real influencer.

So how can we justify being our own hero? Is it "all about me"?  How can we love others if they're beneath us? I feel it's a slippery slope to loneliness. Do you agree?

Jo Warner